Anger Management

Don't try to provoke me, you won't win because of few words... I will be just quite because you are under my level!

It is not an easy thing for someone to be able to hold back anger and control theirs emotions, especially when they are faced with a situation that really provokes them. It takes a good self-control to restrain themselves so that their anger doesn't get triggered which could cause them to end up regretting whatever they did just because of their momentary anger. 

There are many ways for a person to provoke another person's anger, the easiest thing is through words. They only judge then make assumptions and then utter words that they unknowingly can trigger someone's anger. It could be that when that person did that, maybe that person didn't realize that what they were doing was actually triggering someone's anger. 

Then what if in the end someone's anger is really triggered? Should that person vent their anger? Is that the best way to let that person know that their act causing the other person's anger to rise? 

It takes time to learn self-control and not be easily provoked by other people's words, especially if the person who doing this is someone we know closely. Especially if we know ourselves that if our anger is running high it can cause us to hurt them far more than they hurt us. 

It's a lie if someone triggers our anger then we will not be affected and will just be silent seeing that person's treatment of us. It would be a lie if we are not angry if they really intend to test our patience. 

Sometimes when our anger and emotions are at their peak, we are often not aware of the treatment we give to those who have triggered our anger. Sometimes it ends with regret because in the end we do things that can actually hurt either their hearts, their bodies or ourselves. 

It's never easy to exercise self-control, especially calming down when our anger and emotions are at their maximum. It takes a lot of experience to be able to help us to control ourselves and control our anger. It could be that we will make the wrong decision or give the wrong treatment just because our emotions and our minds are not in the right place. 

Learn to restrain yourself, learn to control anger and learn to understand that sometimes not everything can be solved by venting our momentary emotions. 

Silence or suppressing emotions does not mean that we lose to others especially if we know that the person is deliberately provoking our anger and it could be that that person is doing that just because that person has a problem and is unknowingly taking their frustration out on us by triggering our anger. 

In the end, time will show which one is right and wrong. Being silent doesn't mean that we justify or that we are afraid of the person. Sometimes taking a step back or walking away is a good way to win the fight without having to participate in the whims of someone who is stupidly provoking us on purpose. 

Arguing with someone who really intends to provoke our emotions and anger is just a futile thing that we don't need to respond to. Let them judge or make assumptions about us because in the end the one who knows about us is ourselves and they do all that only for their inner satisfaction to hurt others.