Pearls Journey

  The world ain’t all sunshine and rainbows. It’s a very mean and nasty place and I don’t care how tough you are it will beat you to your knees and keep you there permanently if you let it. You, me, or nobody is gonna hit as hard as life. But it ain’t about how hard ya hit. It’s about how hard you can get hit and keep moving forward. Rocky Balboa We can't help someone if that person has the intention to heal themselves. No matter how hard we encourage them, but they don't want to, it's useless. No matter how sincere our intentions are to help them but they themselves don't want to try for themselves then it will be useless. Some time ago I met someone. At that time I asked him why he wanted to know me. Lonely. Whenever someone says that to me, somehow my intuition tells me that there is something deeper than that. There must be something wrong which will eventually emerge over time. When I first met him, he told me that he did all these things just b...

           A father holds his daughter’s hand for a short while, but he holds her heart forever. Having someone who supports and encourages you is something that is very valuable. You never know how long they will be by your side. People can come and go as they please and that is life. It is also called destiny because we will never know in our story, with whom we will cross paths.   Today I want to reminisce someone who is very precious in my life. He always cheers me up, supports me, and loves me in his own way. He taught me the meaning of life even though at the end of the day it took me a while to understand the meaning of what he was trying to explain to me. I have to admit the way he showed me was not a common way but over time I finally figured that he was the one who gave me a lot of influence for being open-minded and didn't make assumptions or judgments about things just because it was the first ...

  Always have a willing hand to help someone, you might be the only one that does. When I wake up in the morning, I'm used to checking my phone notifications. Today someone who just joined our team messaged me. We've spoken a few times and s he seems to like talking to me. At first I never would have thought s he wouldn't reach me because in our team, I guess I'm the oldest compared to the others. It seems that this girl is young, passionate, wants to help and support others. At some of our previous convos s he asked me maybe I could give her some tips on how the best way to do it. I just told her that s he better try it by herself first and over time s he will be able to understand the pattern and if there is anything s he doesn't understand s he can reach me or the others on the team. This time s he asked me if I ever felt that there everyone just wanted to chit chat and no one needed help or advice. When I read it, it honestly reminded me of the first ...

  “Goodbyes make you think. They make you realize what you’ve had, what you’ve lost, and what you’ve taken for granted.” Sometimes one wonders when someone leaves them without explanation. They felt they did nothing but in the end they were left behind. They focus on their pain without thinking about why they were left behind. But has anyone ever thought about the reason why that person was abandoned? Especially if the person doing so is someone they deem important to them. There are many reasons why someone chooses to leave especially if that person has tried their best, put in their best effort but all of that is never considered by others. While they often blame others for leaving them without an explanation instead of introspecting themselves, could it be that they were the ones who made the mistake that someone so important to them left them? Often times, because they are too comfortable with someone, they forget that they also have to pay attention to the other part...