Pearls Journey

           A father holds his daughter’s hand for a short while, but he holds her heart forever. Having someone who supports and encourages you is something that is very valuable. You never know how long they will be by your side. People can come and go as they please and that is life. It is also called destiny because we will never know in our story, with whom we will cross paths.   Today I want to reminisce someone who is very precious in my life. He always cheers me up, supports me, and loves me in his own way. He taught me the meaning of life even though at the end of the day it took me a while to understand the meaning of what he was trying to explain to me. I have to admit the way he showed me was not a common way but over time I finally figured that he was the one who gave me a lot of influence for being open-minded and didn't make assumptions or judgments about things just because it was the first ...

  There are wounds that never show on the body that are deeper and more hurtful than anything that bleeds. – Laurell K. Hamilton Knowing when everyone is rejecting you, belittling you, and doubting you is definitely stressful. Knowing that everything you do always seems to never be enough for them is quite frustrating. That's something I often experience. Everything I do seems never enough and always ends in mistake. To always stand back and try to prove that we are not someone like that is also not an easy thing. This is an experience I had recently. To this person, I was always the one who never did anything right, I always made mistakes and I always did all kinds of stupid things. I never knew what sin I had committed until s he could judge and make such assumptions about me. I only regret one thing . I didn't expect that s he should have been the first person to support me, cheer me up when I was down but turned out she was the one who brought me down the most. ...

  I won’t say that your lessons were very easy to learn – but I will say that all of your lessons came at a time when I needed them the most Everyone has their own perspective and whatever it is I always learn to appreciate and respect their perspective. Even though sometimes their perspectives are different from mine, but I have learned to accept, respect and understand them . I often have the experience of having different opinions with other people but I don't always stand up for mine. If their opinion is right and I am wrong, then I don't hesitate to admit that their opinion is right. There are some people who have asked me, Am I never angry? Why can I be this patient? How can I have a mindset like this? How can I always understand someone? How can I understand their feelings? I think it started because I have a lot of siblings and also an elder. In my family, they demand me to be the perfect elder. They never said it openly, but indirectly they demanded that I ne...

  “Some people with autism may not be able to speak or answer to their name, but they can still hear your words and feel your kindness.” Having a special child is not easy. My son was diagnosed with passive autism when he was in kindergarten. At that time the results of the report given stated that my son suffered from passive autism. When he was still in my tummy, I almost lost him when I carried him in my fourth month of pregnancy. That period really drained my emotions, thoughts, soul and energy so when he was born , when the first time I carried him, I know he will be my everything, he will always be my world Everything was perfect at first. Just like other babies, he looks handsome and very adorable. Since he was a baby, he never gave me any trouble. He's an easy baby for me to take care of and I'm determined to take care of him by myself because I really like babies and kids . Another reason is my pregnancy experience made me not want to lose all the moments with...